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| - Sara Ahmed |
It is said so that BEAUTY CANNOT BE COMBINED WITH BRAINS. But the beauty queens like Miss. World, Miss. Universe have proved it wrong. Beautiful people have brains and not so beautiful people too have brains.
As in the above case external beauty is necessary but does External Beauty Count in LOVE? It depends upon individual to individual. According to me, you can only fall in love with a person after knowing him/her properly and not only through their looks. Through their nature you can come to know whether you go along with the person well or not and not through their looks. You are not going to spend your life just staring at them. But doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t love a beautiful person. Every one of us has our own DREAMMAN/DREAMWOMAN and one thing, which we really wish for, is that our partner should be externally beautiful.
LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT. When we think of this line one thing which comes to our mind is that this can only happen if you are beautiful. Yes to a certain extent this is right. But LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT can be different in certain cases like these ones:
1) You happen to meet a person at a party or a social gathering and your communication continues even after the party.ie you become good friends. In the mean time you both realize that you can go along well as life-partners but then neither of you is beautiful then what do u do? You can either remain friends or take the friendship to the next level of LOVE if beauty doesn’t bother you much.
2) The most common thing is now is finding your soul mate through INTERNET. Yes the people who get one will definitely agree. There are many people who wont believe in this. Usually on Net our communication is restricted to mails and chatting. But if one thought of the other person touches the chord of your heart you will definitely interact with that person on phone and then the FIRST meeting. And in that meeting you find that the person is not beautiful what will you do? Just forget all that happened and get back to the old path of friendship. Or what if you have seen the person on Net and then decided not to meet him/her just because he/she is not beautiful.
In the above cases what matters you the most: Your feelings or the Beauty?
This problem is most commonly found among beautiful guys and girls who think that if they are beautiful they ought to get a beautiful partner too. But we can’t blame them alone. There are many factors for these like:
1) SOCIETY where we live, wherein if one partner is beautiful and other is not then many unnecessary opinions are formed even if the couple is happy together.
2) PARENTS- they are the ones who always expect the best from their children. And given a choice to you to choose a life partner your parents want the best of the lot even if beauty doesn’t bother you much.
3) SELF-ATTITUDE- As I mentioned earlier that if you are beautiful you too long for a beautiful partner.
But apart from all these things we still find that external beauty is given more preference than internal beauty in the most important aspect of life- LOVE. But remember one thing External Beauty isn’t here to stay for long. It’s an additional gift of God to add to your internal beauty. About Internal Beauty all which can be said is that IT IS ETERNAL. No one can ever take it from you. This is where you can be YOURSELF.
LOVE is everyone’s right and it shouldn’t revolve around beauty alone. LOVE shouldn’t have any boundaries, limitations and guidelines. Instead it should have mutual trust, understanding and
Exceptions.
Sara Ahmed is one of our users and has a flare for writing articles as you can see (above). Thank You Sara for taking the time out to share your beautiful article with us. |
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